Why were my answers removed from this
posted by wfrgms to Etiquette/Policy at 3:32 PM (164 comments total)
I put a lot of time and thought into my responses to that question. True, like many of the respondents there, I didn't suggest a book, but rather addressed the underlying problem of trying to 'fix' a relationship in this way.
Jessamyn's lame explanation: [few comments removed - if you can't answer somewhat dispassionately, please don't]
"Dispassionately" Excuse me? So now the "tone" of an answer has to pass muster with the mods? Give me a break.
If my comments were deleted because they were somehow "non-answers" that's first and foremost ridiculous, because they were legitimate answers to the overall problem. Second, if that's the case why aren't all the other non-book specific comments gone also?