“My son has started puberty and we've discussed all the things that come with it. However, his friends have described to him things they claim that are 'coming' that don't seem like my own experience. I'm a mother, so I can't answer this question from direct experience. How can I explain to my son what to expect and how things can vary and related?”
I'm writing my first foray into erotic fiction, and I'm having trouble describing the act of ejaculation. Can you help?
fivefreshfish has a history here of posting things to "make a point".
untitled (tentatively: the miracle of life)
was seriously like
a bowling ball.
With everything going on and
feeling interconnected, the actual
delivery of the head felt
like it could be
out the anus.
How can I better understand the sexual experience of men and apply that knowledge to enhance our sex life? [more inside] As a woman, I have no real notion of what goes on in a man's mind and body in the moments around orgasm and how it compares to my own experience, but I feel confident that knowing what sensations, thoughts, and impulses arise would allow me to be a better sexual partner.
Can the men of Metafilter enlighten me? What happens to you if a partner intensifies his/her actions as you approach orgasm? If he/she backs off, and then brings you back up to the peak of arousal, does that intensify or diminish the experience? And (perhaps most elusively) what is it like to ejaculate?
Although my SO's description is useful, I wonder if he might unconsciously be hedging a bit to preserve my feelings, much as a guest would hesitate to tell a hostess at a dinner party what aspects of a menu she could improve. I'm wary of asking my male friends, as that would expose us to a greater intimacy than any of us want. As for looking online, well, the resources may exist, but googling returns millions of hits, most of them pr0n. I'm hoping for clear responses from an intelligent community of men, which I can only imagine finding here.
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