Answer the question or don't already, 1.
posted by loquacious to Etiquette/Policy at 11:08 PM (361 comments total)
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Once again - snark is unwelcome in AskMe. Unless you actually have something to useful to contribute STFU and GTFO.
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Gee, I wonder which one of you wrote this. Please never write anything in this style again.
To paraphrase the always reprehensible and should-never-be-quoted-or-paraphrased-by-anyone-in-any-circumstances Ayn Rand, "when good and evil compromise, evil always wins." Which is to say, any compromise between polyamory and monogamy is still polyamory. There is no middle ground here.
And really, you were "confused" when she was hurt? Come on, she made a good faith effort and it didn't work. It's kind of fucked up for you to resent her for being hurt by you.
Ugh, OK now I'm getting kind of pissed off at you for convincing her that your relationship is somehow not "fair" to you. How is it not fair? Nobody's forcing you to be in it. She's been very clear about what she needs, and you've decided of your own free will to be in a relationship that doesn't meet your ideal and then, it seems, guilt-trip her about it.
And for the love of god,
write another post
in the style
of this one.
posted by 1 at 10:35 PM on March 6 [+] [!]