Generally, I hate this place being insular and thus self-selecting in members who want to join. I really believe that insularity detracts from this site. I really don't want to contribute to insularity, so one thing this thread has made me personally think about is that, while I have discounted the 'boyzone' label in the past and considered the 'sexist' label too frequently abused, there does appear to be a significant number of reasonable individuals who do feel that the place is a boyzone hostile to women. So, irrespective of whether I believe that is objectively correct, the effect is there. And since I don't want to contribute to insularity, I need to make sure that I don't make the cheap joke or insult that has a broader effect. I will try personally not to add to the boyzone when I consciously can.Even if I don't agree with the argument that X is offensive or hostile to others, the idea that there are people who do dislike it and find it offensive or hostile should suggest that the prudent course is that one should avoid X lest we needlessly drive away a diversity of viewpoints. This guy offers an offensive and shallow characterization of a political view, and that characterization has been plucked out as a comment among thousands as something worthy of special note.
In order to maintain fairness and balance we should have a sidebar post from someone explaining the good side of the neoconservative movement, and how it isn't just fascism with a more acceptable name.And, good luck with that.
That line of thinking resonated with me. I do believe in the value of diversity, and I really detest insularity (whether it be by in-jokes, mocking of others, or shouting down). So what jessamyn said there made me rethink the boyzone issue.
That level of what may seem like edginess just comes across as tiring more often than not to me personally, and I would guess a lot of the other females here who have spent far too much time trying to disambiguate edgy humor from "don't let this guy follow you to the parking lot" angry humor. You want to encourage women to stay on the site, do your part to make the place seem less like a frat house.
posted by jessamyn at 5:53 PM on November 16
Women are part of this community, not extra participants. Saying it's sometimes okay to create spaces that are hostile to them in the interests of the benefits of expressing your frustrations is sort of exactly the point as I see it. It's basically an open question: is it more important that people always say exactly what is on their mind, generally, or is it more important to foster community by sometimes mitigating what we say in the interests of other members?
posted by jessamyn at 3:47 PM on November 19
2. indicate to people offended by people's sexist comments that a) they have an option b) they should let us know c) the culture here isn't just for them to quietly slink off feeling "well maybe this place isn't for me"
posted by jessamyn at 10:05 AM on November 22
You shouldn't have be in an environment where people are so politically charged and wedded to their ideas that you have to be uncomfortable and feel like an outsider just because your political viewpoints are different.We're not doing that because those political viewpoints are different.
we really are open to other ideas, especially when expressed intelligently and cogently.Amen to this. Unfortunately, both intelligence and cogence are usually missing from what passes for "conservative thought".
Liberal: You know, the latest reports from the IPCC and the UN scientific bodies really do seem to bear out climate change. And then there's this stuff from James Hansen, the chief scientist at NASA. And there's also this stuff over here at Pharyngula, which, although it's a blog, and heavily slanted, aggregates a lot of SCIENCE!! on the topic.I am entirely willing to listen to reasoned critiques and disagreements. Intelligent and cogent disagreements, if you will. And I'm still waiting to hear some. From where I'm sitting, there is zero chance I will be persuaded by an argument that adds up to LA LA LA LA LA LA I'M NOT LISTENING AND BESIDES LIBERALS ARE NAIVE STUPID KIDS AMIRITE.
Conservative "riposte": Typical liberal groupthink. The IPCC and the UN have both been tainted for years by the new political correctness and it's just frankly naive to believe that science is anything other than hopelessly slanted. Furthermore, it's typical of the left to cite a blog instead of hard evidence. Come up with some actual facts and we can talk.
Anyone who thinks MetaFilter is not overwhelmingly left-leaningI'm curious: why is this such a big problem? As far as I can tell, MetaFilter's version of "overwhelmingly left-leaning" means:
And the dude's post was interesting, I'll give it that. But a Nazi he was not. I understand what he's trying to say - the power of groupthink and all that. But still. Nazis killed 12M+ people. This guy? Not an ex-Nazi.
posted by Afroblanco at 7:19 AM on January 29, 2008